How to have a conversation about vaccines
Why might someone say no?
When someone says no to a vaccine, it's natural to assume they just need more information. But the reason might be something else entirely. Understanding why helps you have a better conversation.
Often it's a mix of all three.
The point isn't to diagnose — it's to understand. And understanding starts with asking and listening.
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Maybe they haven't had the chance to look into it, or the information they've seen was confusing or overwhelming
How you can help:
- Share a specific, trustworthy link (not a general "do your research")
- Keep it simple: one source, one question at a time
- Use the Teach-Back: "Does that make sense? How would you explain it to someone else?"
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The clinic might be too far away. They might not know how to book. They might not be able to get time off work, or they might need childcare.
How you can help:
- Ask: "What would make this easier for you?"
- Offer practical support: a lift, help booking, looking after the kids
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Maybe they've read something that scared them. Maybe they don't trust the government or pharmaceutical companies. Maybe someone they know had a bad experience.
How you can help:
- Listen first. Hear what's worrying them before offering information.
- Acknowledge their concern: "I understand why that would worry you"
- Share your own story if you have one
- Don't dismiss their feelings — that just pushes them away
- Point them to a source they might trust (Oxford Vaccine Group is often good for this — it's independent and academic)